In today’s Spotlight Session, I’m talking to
about writing, Substack, family, and all things human.I was amazed how much we have in common with her, I truly enjoyed our conversation.
Ok, so
is one of the winners of my Substack challenges. She lives in Nigeria, where she works in fintech and in product management (much like me).But beyond her impressive career, she runs a heartfelt Substack called Becoming Together—a space where parents and children grow side by side through personal growth, intentional living, and conscious parenting.
Her Substack journey began with a restless desire to parent differently than she was parented. That desire deepened when she lost her father, a poet and storyteller whose legacy of words inspired her to start writing publicly. With Substack, she found a platform to continue that legacy by sharing reflections, stories, and practical tools that help families thrive together.
Watch the video to hear Stella’s story and learn:
Why parenting starts with your own personal growth
The “inner child” connection, and why it matters for both - kids and parents
How she balances consistency on Substack with a demanding 9-to-5 job (much like me)
Also the mindset shifts that keep her writing even on difficult days. And, of course, how the Unplugged Challenges, community, and Notes accelerated her growth on Substack.
You’ll also discover how Stella:
Built her publication around the idea that parents must raise themselves first to raise thriving kids
Turned intentional living into a family practice of learning, play, and reflection
Grew her Substack by engaging in Notes, chats, and live sessions to build real community
Created resources for families, including her book Family Time Unplugged and toolkits like the Focus Play Pack and Affirmations Cards
So if you’re a Substack writer juggling family, career, and creativity—or if you’re curious how intentional living weaves into writing, join Stella’s newsletter:
And remember to post your questions to Stella in the comments :)
Stella’s Books:
Positive Morning Affirmations. 365 Daily Practices to Transform Your Mindset, Boost Confidence, and Thrive Every Day: Volume 1: A Journey of Growth
Family Time Unplugged: Play, Connect, Explore: From Weekdays to Holidays, Make Every Moment Count
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I see you inside!
Yana
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