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I failed in public and it was the best thing I did

A spotlight with Sean Wright on failing a 30-day challenge in public, rebranding from Sixty and Lost, and how his dog Rocky earns more on Substack than he does.

So I had a conversation with Sean Wright on a spotlight recently (winner of one of my monthly challenges) about the single article he was most afraid to publish.

You know what? He told me that article turned out to be the best-performing thing he’d written. Can you imagine?

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But before that, a bit about Sean…

Sean is 60. He lives in Portugal. Six years in the UK military, then a long career that includes two short films that won seven awards between them (one at Cannes), a feature film you can still find on Amazon Prime, and a professional photography practice he fell into by accident.

Nine years ago he sold everything, packed his van, crossed the Channel, and ended up a permanent resident in Portugal. Now he writes about mental health, overcoming limiting beliefs, and rebuilding yourself at 60.

His Substack is called Rethink and Rebuild. But this is the story worth telling.

The article he almost didn’t publish

A few months ago, Sean wrote an article about setting artificial deadlines to help with mental health. In that same article, he set himself one: write one article a day for 30 days.

He got to 15.

Then he just couldn’t do it anymore.

Imagine where you are mentally in that moment. You announced something publicly. You failed in front of everyone. And you still have 15 more days you can’t deliver on.

Most creators hide. They quietly stop, hope nobody noticed, come back weeks later pretending nothing happened, and then wonder why their audience is quiet.

Sean did the opposite. He wrote an article admitting he couldn’t finish. Why he couldn’t. What stopped him.

That article got a bigger response than almost anything else he’d written.

Here’s why.

Most people on Substack think they have to show up polished. They think they need to have the answers. They think vulnerability is weakness. But readers don’t connect with polished pieces. They connect with the actual truth.

And Sean’s article about failing was the clearest, truest thing he could have written in that moment.

If you ever find yourself in that situation, don’t hide. Write the thing you’re most afraid to write. Readers will meet you there, almost every time.

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The rebrand

Sean started calling his Substack Sixty and Lost. It felt true. He’d just turned 60, he was figuring things out, and that was his story.

Then readers in the community started telling him, “Sean, you don’t really sound lost when you write.”

So he rebranded to Rethink and Rebuild.

And I love this because it’s a lesson I keep seeing on Substack.

Your readers often see you more accurately than you see yourself. The positioning you start with is your best guess based on how you feel right now. Keep writing, and your readers will reflect back who you actually are.

Sean’s own words: “I’m not really lost. I just thought I was.”

If you’re stuck on what to call your Substack or what to write about, you might be exactly where Sean was. Start writing. Let your readers help you see.

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Rocky earns more than Sean

Rocky is Sean’s dog.

One day Sean wrote a comic article where Rocky “took over the computer” and wrote about all the weird things Sean does. Pure comic relief from heavier mental health content.

Then another Substacker suggested he change his “Buy Me a Coffee” button to “Buy Rocky a Treat.”

He did. And now Rocky earns more on Substack than Sean does.

This is one of the best examples of creative monetization I’ve seen on the platform. Most people put up a “Buy Me a Coffee” button and nobody clicks it. But a dog getting a treat? Everyone wants in on that.

Stealing this idea for a community member. Maybe for my own dog ;)

The human slop problem

Sean and I talked about AI, and he said something I keep thinking about.

When the Substack discourse was about getting rid of AI slop, Sean asked, “What about the human slop?”

Yes, AI slop is real. But bad writing on the internet existed long before AI. The problem has never been the tool. The problem is the writer.

Sean uses AI as an editor. He built his own GPT trained on his own articles. He asks it for honest reviews. He pushes back when it’s too nice. Every idea is his. Every story is his. The AI just refines.

This is how AI should be used. Not to generate ideas. To sharpen them.

Sean’s actual system

Five notes a day, mostly scheduled for US evening hours. Two articles a week, Wednesday and Saturday. All his notes for the full week batched in a single two-hour block on Sunday morning. And he keeps himself six articles ahead at all times, so a bad week never breaks the momentum.

That’s a clean system. And he’s actually doing it, which is the thing that matters.

If you find Notes challenging, here are five free templates you can use to grow your subscribers:

So that’s Sean

I asked Sean what he wanted to leave readers with. He said four words: “Never give up on yourself.”

He’s been in dark places. He’s still here. He’s still writing. That’s why I wanted to feature him. He’s a good example of what it looks like to keep going, even when you fail publicly, even when the numbers plateau, even when you have to rebrand because your readers know you better than you know yourself.

Go subscribe to Sean’s Substack, Rethink and Rebuild. He writes with a kind of honesty that’s rare on the platform.

A few books Sean recommended (my affiliate links):

And if you’re thinking of moving to Portugal, Sean offers one-to-one calls on the visa process because he says too many people get ripped off paying hundreds of euros for things that take five minutes.

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